I'm a Woman, And I don't need DISTRACTION, My own identity is the reason to get out of this prison. I can put my lipstick on, I don't need a reason why I should not. It makes me feel confident, Makes me more Competent, And hereby I kick society's Judgement. I'm a Woman, And I don't need COMPARISON, My own identity is the reason to get out of this prison. I can pull weights and I can play sports, I am not competing with the males, I do it because I find myself in the race, I want to leave my success trace marks And hereby I put the idea of comparison apart. I'm a Woman, And I want to be an EXAMPLE, My own identity is the reason to abandon this prison. I want to be known for being ME, I am not a runner up of the team, I want a celebration for me being a woman. It makes me the strongest, And hereby I say I want to be known for being ME, I want to create my own identity. Because, I am a woman, And I don't need Comparison or Distraction. -By Kunika Chandan
Emotions, for a very long time, have been gendered. For decades, the belief that women are more emotional than men has been one of the most consistent gender stereotypes. However, with ever increasing awareness and acceptance, one comes to realise that the gender stereotypes may apply to beliefs about the expression of emotion more than to the experience of emotion. We , as a society, often talk about emotions of women, children, and the sentiments of elder people. People believe that women express all emotions more than men, with the exception of anger and pride, which are seen as uniquely masculine emotions. If a woman cries, it isn’t considered unusual because women are ‘allowed’ to cry. Women are free to express themselves; people accept their moods and tears. But what about men? Let me give an example of a girl going through emotional trauma. One doesn't consider the girl's reaction unusual and feels sympathetic towards her. However, if one sees a man cr